Coffee, But Not Really Coffee is a participatory event that uses personal coffee rituals as a gentle way to explore inclusivity, individuality, and cultural encounter. Instead of one “correct” coffee, everyone is invited to prepare their version whatever “coffee” means to them.
Why coffee?
Coffee can be comfort, routine, status, survival, heritage, or simply a way to pause. In many cultures, preparation is communal, an invitation to sit, share time, and witness one another. Here, coffee becomes a tool to meet the “other”: another person, another background, another way of living. To use the ordinary act of making a drink to create an intimate, contemporary space for exchange; inviting participants to slow down, encounter one another, and consider how everyday rituals shape belonging.
Coffee, But Not Really Coffee revisits Mayumi Nakazaki x Monali Meher’s 2004 project titled Tea Ceremony, where neighbors from Asylum Seeker’s Center, Bos en Lommer Amsterdam were invited for tea. Participants, strangers from different nationalities, shared how tea or coffee is served in their home countries. The experience wasn’t only to drink together, but to practice hospitality through giving and receiving. ‘By paying attention to everyone’s tea, we became more aware of our own histories and assumptions’.
More than 20 years later, these questions feel more urgent than ever to Mayumi Nakazaki x Monali Meher: what can art do amid today’s social challenges, and how do we live inside the tension between belonging and being ourselves?